Well it is a week today since I had my surgery and it feels almost like I have been working out and just have soar muscles in my belly!! I went to the Dr. on weds. and he took out the stitches which made the cuts very tender for a couple of hours. He has decided to give my body a swift kick in the rear end and prescribe some fertility medicine!! I don't know how long I will be on it but hopefully it works! He said the reason that he feels like I need it goes along with being aggressive on the trying part as soon as I am healed and also because my body has had the endometrioses for so long, he is not sure what to expect to for us to hit the ground running!! I am excited for next month to get here so that we can hopefully give myself a birthday gift!!!
I was disappointed in the "help" that my kids were to me the last week. I asked about getting help with the little things before the surgery and when the towel hamper was overfilled and falling on the ground, who was it that washed, dryed, and fowled? I can give you allot of guesses but to save time, it was me! I asked them about it and the reactions from Ashley was tears and then the silent treatment as if I had done something wrong by asking why I was having to do it. From Adrian I got the I don't care attitude, almost as if it wasn't even a big deal that he hadn't done anything to help out. Having that conversation done, I decided that I was going to give the relaxation thing a try again and give them the opportunity to redeem themselves. What do you think happened today!!!
Hint, I washed, dryed, and fowled towels. I would do more around the house except I am being stubborn to see if they will be considerate and give me a hand every now and again without attitude from asking them to do something, and even for that matter, without asking!
I keep the counters washed down because I cook and serve food on them everyday and it would be horrible to not serve food on a clean surface. If I didn't enjoy the cooking thing as much then I would be stubborn on that as well.
Sometimes I get frustrated but then I just tell myself that they are my kids and I get to "enjoy" all aspects of their personalities, even if they are showing the lazy part or what have you!!
I am working on getting the pictures downloaded so I can post them, the kids got the school pictures in. I will post Ashley's and Samuel's pictures as soon as I can as well as get some mailed out to family members.
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I have been waiting for my kids to clean their basement playroom for weeks now. I think I'm going to have to eventually cave and do it myself! Especially if I want it done right. I guess kids of all ages are a bit the same.
So did Kevin get tested as well during your doctor appointment?
They are giving it a try with just me right now, but if after a month there is no baby, then he will be tested and we go from there.
I'm glad your recovery is going well in spite of all the help you're getting. I've been waiting for Taylor and Kendall to clean their room for a couple of months now so you can imagine how impossible it is to wade through everything. I just try to not go in there too often.
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